Thursday, January 20, 2005

if i dont love you...

what would you think if someone said this to you:

"if i dont love you as a friend, i love you as a person."

huh?! what does that mean? they dont love you...you are not their friend, but you are still a good person? so even though you are a good person, that person doesnt like you as a friend? it doesnt make sense to me. why wouldnt someone want to be "friends" with a nice "person?"

is that a compliment? you may not be a friend, but you are still a good person? is that an insult? youre not my friend, but youre still a good person?

huh?

does it make a difference if one of your best friends said it? if it was the last thing they said before they hung up phone: "if i dont love you as a friend, i love you as a person" and then said "ill talk to you soon, bye."

this happened to me tonight, and i sat there after the phone went dead....with my eyes looking extremely confused--eyebrows all hunched up--going "what? what the hell was that? what did they just say?" who says that? what the hell does it even mean? wierd.

"if i dont love you as my friend, i love you as a person." haha, what an ass. one of my best friends tells me that...so i guess im not really their friend, but at least i have the fact that im loved as a person going for me huh? what the hell...im still questioning this.....

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